mumby road

Rule Follower

I was recently inducted as a new member of the Grandparents Club. Per the club handbook, within 24 hours, I’d changed my phone’s lockscreen to a picture of the baby. (I’m smitten.)

Grade-A stocking stuffer

A toy shaped like a dog, with an accordion-fold torso allowing odd shapes

Two-dog Christmas

Auto-generated description: A person with glasses sits on a red chair, smiling and holding a fluffy dog, with another dog wearing a sweater standing on the couch in the background.

Two years
My mom died September 1, 2022: 4 months and 4 days shy of her 99th birthday.
I think of her and Dad all the time. The best is when they're in my dreams.
Color photo of an old woman with white hair and an active expression

RER

Eight years since my dad died. It’s so great when he’s in one of my dreams.

Maggie
As an adult, my family has had three dogs. Sweet, sweet Maggie (officially, Margaret Rose) was the first.

Early Maggie (and early kids):
Three kids and and a 
sweet dog

Late Maggie:
A sweet dog

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My dad, cousin, and sister, circa 1990. (I’m guessing). I love this pic. Nice sweater(?), sis!

An older man, a middle-aged man, and a younger woman at a picnic.

Who? Hoot.

Christmas scenes 2023

ewr (1923-2022)

Old sepia-toned photo of a happy little girl in a wagon holding a parasol. Today, this little girl would have been 100 years old.

FOTB
A few days late, but having happy Father-of-the-Bride memories from 1-year-plus-a-few-days ago. It's a great thing to like your sons-in-law. Nay & Cait. Bride and Groom in Brooklyn sharing a 'swoony' kiss

Precious

My true love and our first-born (at Bemelmans Bar in the Carlyle, NYC – also precious in its own way!) šŸ“· Mother and grown daughter with their heads together in a golden-glowed NY bar

one year

My mom died a year ago today, three months short of her 99th birthday. She was a time-traveler. Her death is still difficult to get my head around. She was a vibrant, fun, and intelligent woman, and I miss her a lot, even though she was in my life for a long time. Mom and Dad in their prime:

An elegant mature man and woman, husband and wife.

Manly
"As I get older, I find that I care more and more about being a good man and less and less about career stuff. I think a lot of it is just a product of age. But the fact that Iā€™m the last survivor of the family I grew up in plays a significant part. When my mom passed away last October, the only guide for how I behaved was asking myself how my parents would want me to deal with it..." -- Jonah Goldberg, ["In Defense of Manly Tears," Aug 4, 2023](https://thedispatch.activehosted.com/index.php?action=social&chash=7fb8ceb3bd59c7956b1df66729296a4c.1661&nosocial=1) šŸ’¬

Happy Birthday to this (T)ACLLEH!

june seventh
Happy Birthday to this one:

Firstborn.

Happy Anniversary to these two:

Miss them.

love this photo šŸ¶

Always Marry an April Girl | Ogden Nash | šŸŽ‚
Praise the spells and bless the charms,
I found April in my arms.
April golden, April cloudy,
Gracious, cruel, tender, rowdy;
April soft in flowered languor,
April cold with sudden anger,
Ever changing, ever true --
I love April, I love you.

PTR

Dad and Mom
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Cait & Nay

23 Sept 2023.